Yes, we do realize just how much is often at stake. Unless you are planning to lie, don’t be afraid. Your relationship is no joke to us. You will be treated with dignity and respect. If you truly care about your relationship, then you have found the right place.
We’d like to make one strong suggestion as you talk with your mate about taking this exam:
There is a natural inclination to tell your mate that if they fail this test, you will leave them for good. This is probably the most counter-productive stance you can take to a polygraph examination. Ask yourself; what is the real goal here? Is the goal to prove to yourself you were right all along? Or is the goal to get to the truth and lay the first stone on the path to peace? If you truly desire to make the relationship work, the second option is the only real option.
Give your partner the freedom to fail the exam…as long as they are willing to come clean when they do. If they fail the exam, but remain in denial, well that is another matter.
My point is not to sabotage this very important moment in the relationship by setting unreasonable expectations. It probably took a while for things to get as bad as they are and it will take some patience to reverse that.
View the exam for what it is, an objective tool to provide an important piece of truth to help you make healthy decisions for your relationship.
In closing, it seems best to list quick answers to the three most often asked questions.
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